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How I got here

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I (I am A) am sitting next to my half naked girlfriend, cuddled up in our bed and drinking wine straight from the bottle. My boyfriend is on a date, I think to myself as I take another swig of wine.  This is A "I really wish he had put the nice sheets on the bed for her," I say out loud "I agree" My girlfriend, L, replies.  How in the fuck did I get here? I am an *almost ALMOST* 34 year old gal practicing ethical non-monogamy. Yep, you heard that right. I have multiple romantic partners. It wasn't always this way though. I did years, YEARS, of monogamy and I was fucking shitty at them. I will spare the details (I do not wish to cry tonight). This is Boyfriend B Let us rewind to July of 2015 when I met Boyfriend B. I met him on tinder when my ex and I decided to go on tinder to flirt with people. I was on a mostly mono relationship and wanted to spice things up. Instead, I got a whole new life.  I was attracted to Boyfriend B because it was...