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Family Update

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It has been a minute since I blogged last and I wanted to give a dynamic update as things have shifted in our polycule. Girlfriend A (me!) has moved out of the family home (where I lived with Girlfriend L and Boyfriend J and our combined 6 kids). I now live with boyfriend B with our three children a few minutes away. While the decision to switch up our cohabitation was a hard one to make, we all needed more space. 9 people and five dogs in a 4 bedroom house was starting to wear on us a bit. Our puppers enjoying their new space With this change, we have had to be more mindful of making time to nurture the individual relationships throughout the polycule. When a shift occurs like this in a 'cule, it can be easy to drift apart. That has been a fear of everyone in the 'cule so we have been very mindful to keep our weekly family traditions alive. We still have #wastedwednesday dinners and soaking sunday. These two weekly rituals allow us to stay connected and come together as ...